Live in right-relationship with what’s real.

This isn’t a vision board fantasy. It isn't magical thinking. But I promise you, the transformation is magic.

This is a devotional practice. A guide to meeting reality with reverence, without retreating into denial, defense, or distortion. A reckoning with your relationship to resonance. 

There was a time when I only loved life when it was lovely. When I was 'in favor' or 'in good standing' with nearly all of my community. But loving selectively isn’t love. Its performance.

This guide invites you to romance the real. To hold heartbreak without becoming bitter. To stay open, even when things don’t go your way. To lead, live, & love. Not from reward. From a rooted relationship with resonance that discerns how to move in it fluidly, whether life is chaotic or calm, as a rhythm.

Romancing Reality is how we meet our mortality, our mystery, & our meaning, with presence. Not pretense.

If you’re ready to stop resisting life &start relating to it with care, this guide is for you.

Here’s what you’ll get:
✔️ Reflective prompts to explore how you’ve been relating to life itself
✔️ Practices that anchor presence... even when life feels messy or unmet
✔️ A devotional guide to loving without performing, leading without pretending, & living with reverence for what is

⚠️ Disclaimer: This is for the brave-hearted. For those who don’t want to escape reality, but learn to meet it with depth, clarity, & courage. If you’re ready to stop outsourcing your joy to conditions & start reclaiming your aliveness, let’s begin.

...because what’s real deserves to be romanced.